Story THU HOA – HA VY, PHUONG UYEN
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Twinkling lights, joyous laughter and heartwarming stories are familiar household scenes during the festive season. This month, Heritage Fashion speaks with a pair of celebrity families to discover genuine tales of love and connection.

Ho Ngoc Ha – Kim Ly

Artists

While the public sees Ho Ngoc Ha as fierce on stage, she sheds the “Queen of Entertainment” title at home to embrace her roles as a loving wife and mother with

Kim Ly and their little angels. In 2017, Ho Ngoc Ha and Kim Ly first collaborated on the music video Ca mot troi thuong nho (A Sky Full of Longing). The kiss in the video transformed their on-screen chemistry into a real-life romance. Despite speculation, it wasn’t until late 2017 that Ho Ngoc Ha officially announced their relationship on Kim Ly’s birthday with a photo of her giving him a sweet kiss. Since then, they’ve been inseparable, supporting each other’s decisions with trust.

Speaking about her life partner, Ho Ngoc Ha uses three adjectives: “Sincere, affectionate and intelligent.” These qualities not only define him as an upright man but also form the foundation of their enduring household. She shares that she’s living in a marriage where the spouses love and respect each other. “The most important thing is not letting fame interfere with our personal lives, as that’s work-related. For matters of the heart, let love and respect handle them,” Ho Ngoc Ha confided. Reflecting on their journey together, Ho Ngoc Ha discussed a period when they briefly separated due to disagreements about living separately. However, this distance helped them recognize each other’s value, leading to their decision to build a family together. This chapter of their story serves as both a memory and a reminder of why they came together and committed to their marriage.

For Ha, family always comes first. Having weathered life’s ups and downs, Ho Ngoc Ha deeply cherishes her current happiness. She acknowledges her fortune in having Kim Ly choose to live and work in Vietnam (he is of Vietnamese- Swedish descent). Kim Ly is her husband, life partner and soulmate. He helps her to be herself, and the peace from their family life serves as her energy source to continue shining in her career.

Ho Ngoc Ha is grateful to Kim Ly for his understanding and support. When Ha is busy with performances or events, Kim readily stays home to care for their twins, Lisa and Leon. Kim Ly also maintains a close relationship with Subeo, Ha’s son from a previous relationship. Kim unconditionally supports Subeo, allowing him to make his own decisions about what he likes. For her part, Ha always tries to return home as early as possible after performances, so she can cook for her children and take them to school.

Lisa and Leon, now four years old, are adorable and well-behaved. The parents share the same perspective, dedicating time to raising their children in the best possible way: “We focus on teaching our children independence. Above all, we want our children to grow up surrounded by their parents’ boundless love, living together forever with smiles on their faces every day,” Ha said.

Ho Ngoc Ha and Kim Ly have walked hand in hand for nearly eight years. Ha treasures her life partner, and Kim reciprocates with absolute love. On Ha’s recent birthday, Kim wrote: “For the past seven and a half years, I’ve been fortunate to be by your side, witnessing your journey each day. I love waking up next to you, and Lisa and Leon couldn’t possibly have a more wonderful mother. I only wish for you to receive all the best things in the years to come. You are truly unique, and I’m proud to call you my wife. Love you forever.” Despite her external success, perhaps Ha’s greatest happiness is returning to her beloved family. She wishes everyone could find happiness and peace to fully enjoy this beautiful life.

The Hat Nhai Family

Influencers

The Hat Nhai Family has recently become one of social media’s beloved families, thanks to their heartwarming videos showcasing little Pam’s daily life and the love parents Hai Long and Salim express for their child. Perhaps it’s these gestures of respect and affection that have earned the Hat Nhai Family such a devoted following.

Pam’s family is recognized as a model of a modern young family, balancing parenthood with social media content creation. How do you manage these roles?

Salim: We consider parenting our top priority, while content creation is a way to preserve and share meaningful moments. The key to balance is maintaining clear roles, proper planning, and dedicating quality time to Pam. For us, social media is just a part of life and shouldn’t overshadow real connections between family members.

Hai Long: We strive to keep everything natural. The content we share typically captures authentic moments without forcing anything. The most important thing is our mutual support and companionship, whether in work or parenting.

Young families often face societal pressure regarding parenting methods. How have you overcome these pressures?

Salim: Parenting is already challenging, and social media pressure sometimes makes us feel we need to appear perfect. But I believe no parent is perfect; we’re just trying to be the best version of ourselves for Pam. We always listen to Pam and understand her needs. That’s our guiding principle for confident decisions.

Hai Long: We’ve learned to filter opinions. Every family has its own parenting style; what’s important is understanding your family’s core values. Our confidence comes from seeing Pam grow up healthy, happy, and joyful.

Your family always radiates warmth and happiness. Do you have any secrets for maintaining this connection?

Salim: It’s about spending quality time together. No matter how busy we are, we always try to have family meals, go on outings, or simply play with Pam. We also encourage open communication, ensuring everyone is heard and understood.

Hai Long: The key is to remain companions like friends. Salim and I started as friends and have maintained that way of sharing. This helps resolve conflicts and keep the family happy.

As a new-generation family with modern parenting views, what traditional values do you strive to maintain for Pam?

Salim: While raising Pam in a modern way, we strive to preserve traditional values like respect for grandparents and ancestors, family meals, and sharing stories. This strengthens family bonds and helps Pam understand her roots and culture.

Hai Long: Traditional occasions are opportunities for Pam to experience and appreciate traditional beauty. We want our child to grow up with a modern mindset while preserving traditions.

Does Pam’s family have any special Christmas traditions you can share?

Salim: Every year, we decorate the Christmas tree and prepare gifts for friends. Our family strives to make Pam feel the warmth of the season.

Hai Long: We’re planning to host a Christmas dinner at home, gathering and creating more memorable moments for Pam. These holidays are a great chance to strengthen family bonds.

Thanks to the Hat Nhai family!